[123numbers123]

I lost my virginity about a year ago. I bled from it, mostly brownish actually more than red. My periods before that have sometimes been brown so I never thought much of it. I've had sex a few more times after that, but have never had an orgasm. It's been a while since I've had sex, I broke up with my boyfriend, have a new one, all that fun stuff.
My current boyfriend was giving me oral and using his finger and I had my first orgasm yesterday. We haven't had sex, just oral, but today I'm bleeding brownish and reddish again. My stomach is a little upset like cramps, but I have a good two weeks or more before my period. Why is this? Is there something wrong?

[Beckers]

I doubt your hymen grew back again after having sex multiple times, so I don't think it would have anything to do with it.

Since he was fingering you, maybe he made a scratch or tear? How much blood is coming out? Is it similar to when you have your period?

Maybe the sudden new trauma to your vagina with your new boy friend is causing some sort of spotting between your period.

That's all I can think of really, I hope others have more advice.

[123numbers123]

It feels like a light period to me... cramps and all... i'm on the pill and have been right on schedule for awhile now... I'm confused.

[Beckers]

This is really tough. I read that in some women, their cervix bleeds a little when they experience an orgasm, but it seems more like an infection or a scratch.

Does he groom his finger nails?

[123numbers123]

I've never noticed that they were long or anything, but I'm unsure. I was having problems with it hurting when he would use his fingers before, so I got tested for a few infections and stds a few months ago. We've been taking it slow, because the conclusion was that I wasn't relaxed enough... But he's used he fingers a lot of times, it's just been the first time I've orgasmed.

[jns]

He probably did a bit more than other times, since you climaxed. Do you get wet and he uses your wetness as lubricant or does he get you wet enough from oral, or does he use some other lubricant? Without enough lubricant, he may be rubbing you a bit raw.

[123numbers123]

That could be possible. He just tries to get me wet with different things and then uses that. He started fingering before he started the oral. The orals what gave me the orgasm.

[123numbers123]

He says he thinks I was really wet though. So I don't know.

[Beckers]

Maybe invest in some water based lube? That way there's no concern over whether or not you are wet enough, and there won't be too much friction either.