[Hopeless Dork]

omg wow well if i was able too do that my partner would be very happy!!! ha ha

Meh, it really doesn't increase their pleasure much, if at all.. anymore than pulling your legs out straight over your head which is technically easier to accomplish with lesser flexibility. Its more the visual appeal... but if you got in that position every night - it would cease to impress.

I'm very flexible, very, and we rarely put my flexibility to use in the bedroom much.

[maverick]

Missionary can go from tame to wild, depending on the methodology. Legs flat on bed, legs raised with knees pointing upward and legs bent, toes pointing at the sky with legs spread wide, legs wrapped around partner, legs on partner's chest, legs over shoulders, or legs in varying positions of up & down. Most are flexible enough to do some of these and some are flexible enough to do all of them. Even if you are not, some variation, such as woman on a table with man standing will allow her to place her legs in positions where more flexibility would be required if both were lying down. Raising one's butt off of the bed requires more strength, but not necessarily more flexibility. I would suggest trying all of them, though not necessarily during the same session! Do what feels good to both of you. Various positions of legs raised give great access to your girl parts and tremendous visual appeal. Such positions are also good if you are trying to become pregnant. But many report better female stimulation in other positions such as doggie or downward dog. (And the visual appeal ain't bad from that angle either if your guy is a butt man.)