[sassi_classi]

i was having sex with my fiancee' and i sprayed for the very first time which was great. i did it again twice after that once a couple times in one night. i havent done it lately and i really want to and i can feel it but its not coming out. how can i make it come out or happen on a regular? can i control it?

[Dancer22]

your lucky to of done it that many times. i dont know how you do it.

[emptypea2001]

My girlfriend in college was going to a school across state (this was 1970 - before there was any public knowledge about squirting). She called me one night tremendously excited to tell me that she had been masturbating a lot and had finally figured out how to 'cum'. I took this to mean that she had finally learned how to climax, but after she arrived Friday night, she couldn't wait to have sex. I was in a fraternity and couldn't lock my door, but we went to my room and started playing around. In seconds, she started masturbating and when she began to orgasm, fluid streamed out between her fingers and squirted about eighteen inches in the air striking me on the face. Initially, I was certain it was urine - that the pressure of the orgasm had forced some from her bladder - but after it ran down my face, some got in my mouth and the taste was very neutral - not acidic or salty at all. I was amazed, but still could not figure out how it could be anything but urine so what happened is that she started to suppress this when we had sex. I never asked her about it again (to see if it happened when she masturbated) but my guess is that she contined (maybe to this day) to experience it when she wants to. I've always felt bad for not encouraging this with her. My wife now doesn't squirt, says she never has or tried but I know she masturbates a lot so who knows.
My advice is to keep at it and try to bring it on when you are alone until you know the exact triggers. Then you will be able to during sex.

[sassi_classi]

Ok the thing is i NEVER get that feeling during masterbating it only happens when im having sex with him. idk what makes it happen.i use to think if i come so many times during sex then it will happen,but if that was the case it would happen all the time.the sensation is there it just doesnt come out.

[LanaBear]

Female ejaculation doesn't happen all the time for most.

For me it happens a lot (but I'm crazily aroused 99% of the time), sometimes I have no clue until we're done, my hubby knows because he feels the "gush".

Some can only do it through masturbation, some can only do it through sex, some can only do it through g-spot arousal, some can do it all the time. Point is, everybody is different. It is possible to work on it yourself and get there, even if you think you can't.

[Joey]

For me it happens a lot (but I'm crazily aroused 99% of the time)

HA! i LOVE this quote! im exactly the same - so much so that my boyfriend sometimes thinks that im a man in disguise. LOL.

[eleni]

theres a spot on the front about half a finger deep in your vagina
if you apply pressure there for any length of time
it fills with fluid, you can feel it kind of like a lump almost
if it doesnt fill up then you wont squirt.
but if it does and you let go
then you will!

you can train yourself to do it a lot, or suppress it and dont let it happen.

im so useless with anatomical names
but yeah thats whats happening.

[emptypea2001]

Thanks eleni, I'll tell my wife that you have to apply pressure until the 'spot' fills.

[sassi_classi]

but how can you tell when its full? weird question i know