Every time I am fingered I bleed significantly. At first I thought is was normal but we have been together for 5 months (haven't had intercourse yet, I'm a virgin) but it happens every time. We try about 3-4 times a week but the bleeding always occurs. I am nervous about going to the gyno. I have never been. Has anyone else dealt with this? What should I do?
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Is he fingering you extremely hard, to the point of tearing everything?
Don't be afraid of the gyno. The first time is always the hardest, but it gets exponentially easier after that as you start to get comfortable. If you have a problem, getting it checked out sooner rather than later (when maybe it's TOO late) is always a good idea. -
Also, are his fingernails trimmed.
And... being a virgin, it may be possible for you hymen to be tearing. Do you know if your hymen is still in tact?Comment
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