[Hannah-Spanna]

ok ill get to the point
i need advice
i have been involved with foreplay before and for this reason im not the tightest of girls
i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend monday
problem is hes 'bigger' than average,
and since iv been left with this burning and sore sensation down below, it gets slightly itchy from time to time
its been four days since we had sex,
why is this happening?
and what can i do to try and get it to cool a little

im too scared to go to the doctors im a wuss!

[LanaBear]

It could be just from your first time having sex. Were you well lubricated? Did you use protection? Was it rough?

Try taking a good soak in the bath.

[eleni]

it could be thrush - are you having a weird slightly lumpy discharge as well?
or if it *really* hurts when you pee then its probably cystitis.
you can pick up things from the chemist for both of these no problem.

if he's too big for you then you need to go sloooooowly at first and build up to it
maybe get some lubricant
the vagina is pretty stretchy (after all babies come out of there!)
but you do need to work up to it.

xxx