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  • archrival
    Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 11

    What will bring out the best in her?

    In most positions ,my relatively conservative wife will usually restrict her orgasms to a slight moan or whimper,albeit with a grimace like expression, which looks like pain,but is definitely pleasure.
    But in doggie its a completely different story.Those moans and sighs turn to yelps and cries of ecstasy.

    Initially I thought it was cries of pain but upon asking her she just replied that ''I cum quicker in this position."
    This got me thinking- is there greater intensity levels of pleasure in this position, or does it depend entirely on the speed,which i must admit, is a lot quicker than in other positions?
    How do i make her display the same amount of audible enthusiasm in other positions.
    If so which ones do you think will provide the same exquisite peaks of sensory delight.

    I think it has something to do with how hard I hit hit her G spot,but I would prefer not to ask her directly as she is quite a prude when it comes to sex issues.
    Please enlighten me.
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Have you tried clitoral stimulation either with your hands or orally? Does she climax that way?
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • archrival
      Member
      • Aug 2010
      • 11

      Thanks for your reply.Digital and to a much lesser extent, oral stimulation is definitely not her cup of tea.If shes relaxed and in the mood a clitoril massage will libricate her beautifully,but she prefers using the head of my penis to get her juices flowing.I mean why waste good natural lubricant.
      Normally,she has no problems when it comes to reaching orgasm,but what I would like, is for her to feel it in the pit of her loins to such an extent that she cant help but express herself int he most audible manner possible.
      Lately i noticed she really enjoys deep thrusting in the butterfly position but will only moan and breath deeply and not scream.

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      • p3375
        Veteran Member
        • Jan 2010
        • 375

        Arch:
        Dear, you're just gonna have to communicate with her and find those answers. We're all different, and what excites one may do nothing for someone else.
        Communication isn't just talking, tho that's important. But also communicate by noticing how she reacts to different movements. You've already found she usually likes certain things. Experiment, remember, notice what she does or does not do. Be open.
        Oh, not all women are screamers you know. Don't make that a 'goal'. Rather, listen to her little moans and her breathing and the way her body may tremble or react. Take time, be loving
        Pat

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