[east98606]

I am obsessed with full figured women. I have to just let this go but I can't. I have always been attracted to the person first and her figure is just part of who she is. And I have just never had a relationship with a big woman so I just look at big gal pictures. It bothers my wife so I don't want to do it anymore but aside from her feelings....which are important to me....I don't see anything wrong with it. Its just fantacy and not reality!

[belleisangelic]

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

[east98606]

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww? LOL Well ok then.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well I can't delete that post now can I seeing as you laughed Or else I would have as, no context, no help, etc, etc, etc.

Mmm.. Well does it matter what size they are? The bottom line is your wife feels jilted at you looking at magazines, or photographs on the net, so yeah, she is important and your married, so that obsession needs to get itself under control, as one party isn't happy.

It may be that your fantasy is in-deed to have slept with a larger woman, curiousity perhaps but un-fortunately that's not going to happen now, unless you cheat, or leave your wife.

Fantasies are best left. And, they are good in your "head", that's a fantasy, just alone, yours... Getting caught with your pants down, (only joking), watching or viewing this, is going to destroy your marriage, so which is more important?

CW

[maverick]

I don't think that it is unusual to lust after that which you do not have. Its not exactly a character strength, but not unusual either. I think the key word here is "obsessed". Obsession is never healthy and the OP needs to learn how to deal with it. Maybe he can handle it on his own or maybe he needs therapy. The second issue is telling the wife about this obsession. I'm assuming that she is not a curvy gal, so unless there is an incredibly open relationship, this at best was inconsiderate of her feelings or at worst, just plain mean.