[Rae21]

I don't think this is rape or anything close to it, but for the last few weeks my boy friend and I have been staying at each others places. We almost always fall asleep the same way (him on his back, and me on my stomach or side facing him). The weird thing is that we've been waking up one of two ways. Him spooned behind me or us facing each other; and we are connected (his penis in my vagina) every time, it's not uncomfortable because I tend to lubricate easily and quickly. I know he's not waking up and doing it bacause he's a VERY heavy sleeper, once he's out the sky could fall and he wouldn't wake up. I on the other hand wake up at almost every noise and jolt from anything, which is why this is wierd because he is by no means a small man. But neither of us have a history of sleep sex, and neither of us can figure out why we keep doing this. Has anyone ever heard of this happening to other people?

[mr.mansview]

never heard of it but can guarantee his penis isn't slipping in accidentally..

[Mes T]

Yeah... are you sure he isn't fibbing about being asleep when it happens? Cuz........

[sourpuss]

Yeah, definitely not an accident.

[WildChild]

We've had discussions about this before. It's called sexsomnia, it is rather like sleep walking.

[rhiannon34]

I saw a show once about this. People having sex in their sleep, much like people who get up and eat in their sleep and have no memory of it.

I had an experience with an ex boyfriend once, where he would have sex with me while I was alseep and I would just wake up to him being in me. It really bothered me alot. Only difference is he was awake the whole time. Sounds like your so is asleep as well, making it sound like sexomnia to me. It always starts somewhere, so just because he doesn't have a history of it doesn't mean he hasn't started doing it.