[laura1986]

Hello. My man is a little on the big side, and in some positions sex can be very painful if he tries to go deep. I have heard of some kind of pad which can be worn on the penis to limit the depth. Does anyone know what this is called? I've searched and searched but can't find anything. Thanks!

[Hopeless Dork]

I don't know of any pad that you can wear but there are things that you can do.. such as get on top of him for sex and limit the depth yourself. You can use your hand to stimulate the areas of his penis not penetrating you... or you can ask him to do the same on himself in other positions. He's got to be apart of this and working with this on you. I am sure he'd rather have abbreviated penetration over no penetration at all, if sex is very painful for you hopefully he can be understanding and control how far he enters. Perhaps you can treat him to alternative happy endings through touch or oral where he can have more full penetration sensations (by stroking half of him while orally pleasuring the other half, etc).

Unless he's on your team with not going deep.. any position is going to hurt... but some hurt more than others. Doggy style and legs over your shoulders shorten the length of your vagina and will cause him to gain even deeper access which will be more painful. Missionary with your legs down...apart and only slightly bent... gives you a more wiggle room.


But in any position he can just put the tip in and allow YOU to be the one that pushes down as far as you comfortably can. Be sure to use lots of lubrication, to relax, practice deep breathing... and most importantly make sure he has you mentally and physically AROUSED before penetration. When you get turned on, really turned on, your vagina swells and expands inside making intercourse a whole lot more comfortable (and pleasurable)... so be sure he is giving you plenty of foreplay and all the right touches.

While most men enjoy having their entire penis enter... most of the nerves that help them achieve orgasm are located under the head of the penis so even him just putting a couple inches in and thrusting while stroking the rest of himself should still provide him with sufficient friction and stimulation to orgasm pleasurably.

[WildChild]

Could you create something of your own?