[helpmeplease]

i need some help... my gf just moved into college little of a week ago and she just informed that we are not going have sex until about Halloween or thanksgiving break, but she still wants me to finger her and do everything else. this is diffidently different for me because we use to have sex 3 times a day 4 times a week.she though she was pregnant but she wasnt. and as of right now she doesnt want to leave her school to come over but she will have me there and when we do go out its with her roommates. this is her first taste of freedom do to her parents controlling her. Is there anything wrong? thank you.

[Texasred]

Just sounds like she's extremely fearful of becoming pregnant, having had a scare recently, but she still wants the "O".
How about you? Does she return the favor, so to speak?

[jns]

Is she going to see to your pleasure? Maybe she won't be able to wait, but even if she can, I don't see anything wrong as long as both of you are attentive to the other.

[stressed]

She could be worried about pregnancy but still wants to be sexual with you. Suggest a different or additional method of birth control to her.

[chamadi]

It happens sometimes not to worry.

[WildChild]

Does she orgasm reguarly?
She may be feeling that it has been all about you and you getting off.
For the most part women need to feel loved and cared about to feel really open sexually. She may not know quite how to say it but may be feeling that intercourse isn't giving her what she needs.
How much time do you spend on foreplay?
What do you do that is non sexual to show her you care?
Do you do any non sexual touching?
Do you truly listen when she talks?
Do you have fun together aside from sex?

[sallywi2003]

I would have to say she is worried about getting pregant or like others have said she is longing for attention to her. If it is just self satisfying to yourself the us females feel used. Take you time and make her feel wonderful and maybe it will lead to more as time goes on.