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  • Texinator
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2009
    • 5556

    Pulling out is a terrible form of birth control. Don't have him cum on you because of that.

    But if you're on birth control pills for example and he still wants to cum on you.. enjoy it, it's the fruit of your labor!

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    • Allie602
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2010
      • 324

      If he comes on you, you can still get a sexually transmitted disease (herpers transmitted through intact skin) and pregnant. He is wearing a condom and protecting himself but he wants to put you at risk and you are considering this!!.

      What you do is to tell him that he is wearing a condom because it protects you both from STD,s and you from pregnancy. If he wants to put you at risk while he maintains his safety what does that tell you. Say no, unless you don't mind that he cares more about his pleasure and protection and not yours.

      Man ask to do all sorts of things usually from the porn they watch and as with all porn, these things is not geared to pleasing a woman. You have to decide if you the act is mutually satisfying, safe and not degrading.

      If you thought it was sexy to pee on him would he let you do that? I'll bet he would say no in a heartbeat - nothing in it for him and may be contact with STD's. I think it's the same as letting him cum all over you, what does it mean what is in it for you, besides putting you at risk of course.

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      • Guest

        Oooo my b/f likes to cum on my face and have me rub it in, I can't say I understand this and I don't like it very much..

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        • Allie602
          Veteran Member
          • Jul 2010
          • 324

          Originally posted by sidneyalive
          Oooo my b/f likes to cum on my face and have me rub it in, I can't say I understand this and I don't like it very much..
          Did you ever get it in your eye, stings like . You can tell him you don't like it. It's better not to do things you don't want to do, getting into the habit of not communicating your likes and dislikes will effect this relationship and all others.

          If you know he is STD free, you may find that you don't mind having him cum on your breast or belly. Maybe you can share the experience and smear it on his face. If you do things you don't like with men, you slowly build up resentment and sometimes develop the feeling that he cares more about the act than your feelings. If you communicate, you will develop much healthier relationships and learn to find compromises. You also avoid wasting time with men who really don't care about your feelings. If he still wants to do something after you say you don't like it, then that tells you something about how important you are to him or his level of maturity.

          It's difficult for the average person to derive pleasure from doing something that a person they care about does not like. I'll bet you wouldn't do it, so why shouldn't you expect the same consideration.

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