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  • jacknjill
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2010
    • 2

    Heavy bleeding after fingering

    Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been getting into fingering over the past 6 months or so. But recently everytime he fingers my I start to bleed the next day and usually lasts about a week. So I put a hold on us doing that for a while. I recently was fingering myself and it happened again. I'm never hard on myself or strain myself so I don't get whats happening to me.

    This has happened about 4 times to me in the last 2 months. So if you do the math 7 days times 4, thats alot of bleeding.

    Plus, I never had heavy or long periods. It's always been fairly light only lasting 3-4 days.

    Someone please enlighten me if they know whats going on with me!
  • LanaBear
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 8373

    Have you had sex or are you still a virgin?

    If you are a virgin, it could be tearing your hymen which would cause bleeding.

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    • jacknjill
      Junior Member
      • Sep 2010
      • 2

      I'm not sexually active. But I thought my Hymen would already have been broken since I wear tampons. But if its my Hymen being broken would I be bleeding this much?

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      • lizzardb63
        Veteran Member
        • Aug 2010
        • 1493

        Usually when your hymen breaks its just broken and there aren't anymore bleeding beyond that point. Does he use several fingers? Possibly using too many causing slight damage do your vagina. Also- are you ever sore after fingering? If you are maybe its too much, too long, or too rough for you right now. It might help to use lube, i am not sure. You could also ask a doctor.

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