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  • verycurious
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2010
    • 1

    Need some advice

    Ok so I need some advice on how to spice things up in the bedroom. My man loves it when I give him a blowjob, apparently I do that perfectly, so I don't need advice on that. I feel like when we have sex he gets bored though. I really want to make it more exciting for him since he pleases me in every way possible. Mainly all we do is him on top or me on top. I want to suggest different positions but don't know how to go about doing that. Also I don't know many positions to try. If anyone has some ideas on different positions or how to suggest something different please respond. As an added note I am pregnant so I can't be doing anything too "dangerous."
  • graydogreddog
    Junior Member
    • Mar 2010
    • 9

    Get into bed before he does, when he is getting undressed get on your hands and knees and call him over to the bed and lick and stroke him until he is hard and then turn around and have him enter you from behind, not anally,. He will be standing and you on your hands and knees on the bed. My wife likes to be on her knees and lowers her shoulders and head down to the mattress.
    Either of you can rub your clotoris in this position. Also you can tickle and stroke his balls and sac.

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    • lonestar
      Member
      • Sep 2010
      • 87

      the pregnant thing kind of throws me off...
      I'm not sure what your limitations are. My suggestion would be the 77 position.
      It's basically the spooning position with him behind you. He of course, enters you from behind and you two rock together. It takes a little mastering, but it feels really good. It can also be very romantic (to me anyways)- he is pressed up against your back and can kiss the back of your neck and back and you can turn your head to kiss him. He is also in a good position to use one of his hands to stimulate you clitorally. You can google it for more info- not sure if my description makes any sense. lol

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