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  • Lil Bird
    Member
    • Oct 2010
    • 24

    Hot Tips???

    I am new to this and haven't seen any post about this, so if it is then i am sorry.

    I have been with the same man for almost 4 years now. We have a very open and wonderful sex life. We both talk about things we like. I am not complaining at all, but it seems things have gotten a bit 'routine' lately.

    I would like some tips on new things to do in the bedroom to spice things up a bit. I am open to anything!

    Thanks!
  • LanaBear
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 8373

    There are tons of threads on this. Lots of suggestions, etc. It may help to do a search. If I come across some, I'll post the links.

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    • Lil Bird
      Member
      • Oct 2010
      • 24

      thanks!

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      • jr
        Member
        • Jul 2009
        • 58

        DON'T SETTLE!

        From a man's perspective...too many women allow their mates to "settle in" on a relationship. Why? I think more men would do more to keep things "spicy" if they heard from their woman that that's what is appreciated and expected.

        In order for us to see a straight line ladies....you have to put the dots really close together! So don't assume that we know what you want...tell us...remind us!

        That's just my opinion.

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        • Lil Bird
          Member
          • Oct 2010
          • 24

          I do kinda feel like he is "settling in" but every now and again we will watch a porno and he gets a wild idea to try something new. I do tell him what I enjoy most, as well as him telling me. I just want some tips. Guys, what do you like most?? And ladies, what do you do to your men that they like most??

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