please help):

jordanh

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Join Date: Nov 2010

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11-19-2010, 03:38 AM

oh not to mention - my current boyfriend and i don't normally use lube. i'm having a problem with it being painful every time we have when it comes to initially getting it in (almost like in your case, it's very difficult to get it in for me) so we got a lubricant. the biggest plus side? it makes giving hand jobs a LOT easier and i'm pretty sure he wants me to use the lube ALL the time for hand jobs now haha. it feels better for him too.

lube totally works BOTH ways so you're not the only one getting something out of it!
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