What sort of signals, either verbal or physical, does you partner give you to let you know he is about to orgasm? What sort of signals do you give to let your partner know you're about to have an orgasm?
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We both say either "I'm going to cum" or "I'm cumming".There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy. -
Well for my partner, that depends where he is, if im giving him oral sex i can tell if he's ready to orgasm because the head of his you know what starts to swell up, so i know he's ready..
as for me just before i orgasm, i get very loud and encourage him by what im saying to him..Comment
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Depending on the type of orgasm either my core muscles start to get really tense and I kind of curl into him or I start bucking, if you know what I mean by that.Comment
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I dial here cell phone, and say...
LOL!
Sorry, I just couldn't resist!Comment
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For a straight answer: I tell my gf that I want her to cum with me, and that's all it takes for her too, so it's pretty great!Comment
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Used to be he could say, "come" and I would. Colorado is right, when you are in tune with each other, you know.Comment
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She likes me to tell her when I'm about to ejaculate....she can read, feel and sense my body leading upto what's about to take place physically.
With her, it's obvious from the signals her body is sending....rapid breathing, squirming, perspiring, increased heart rate and atthe time of her orgasm, she verbalizes (as best she can....all things considered) what is going on.....and then I feel it !! It's heaven!
We're still working on "coming" (simultaneous release of fluids) together. Use to do it with some regularity, now it's a challenge for me to even be able to ejaculate while inside of her, let alone together. Ejaculating onto her cervix is the ULTIMATE orgasm experience for her and causes her to have the best, most intense orgasms ever.Comment
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I would say my situation is the same as Advice_Seeker's; she senses when I'm about to come, or I just announce it. I can definitely tell when she's about to come as well, from her body movements.Comment
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