[Allie602]

Sounds like you are getting the short end of stick. It sounds like you have not spoken to her yet and you seem to want to know if you are justified in your frustration and how to let her know. I think you are justified you seem to be hitting all the right notes with her but, unless I am missing something she not punching all of your buttons. I am not really sure how to communicate about these things but I do think that you must.

What may work is if you ask her if she likes oral of course she will say yes - then say you love seeing her enjoy and you would love to see her beautiful lips on eddie or what ever you call your junk.

She is enjoying a nice variety of sex I can't see any reason why the man who is her willing partner in fun can't expect the same.

If she says she does not like, find out why. Bad experiences, distaste etc then tell her what you would like to try to make it easier for her. If she says it the smell then you can take a shower and wash very good, taste don't come in her mouth, jaw, hurting use a combination of hand and mouth.

Maybe start with licking like a popsicle up and down and tongue on top portion you get my drift don't want to get too graphic. Thats how i started with my current bf and i hated bj from past bad experiences. If i can get over it with a loving good man anyone can, you just have to approach it right.

Give more detail about why she will not do it.

[ami]

Sounds like you are getting the short end of stick. It sounds like you have not spoken to her yet and you seem to want to know if you are justified in your frustration and how to let her know. I think you are justified you seem to be hitting all the right notes with her but, unless I am missing something she not punching all of your buttons. I am not really sure how to communicate about these things but I do think that you must.

What may work is if you ask her if she likes oral of course she will say yes - then say you love seeing her enjoy and you would love to see her beautiful lips on eddie or what ever you call your junk.

She is enjoying a nice variety of sex I can't see any reason why the man who is her willing partner in fun can't expect the same.

If she says she does not like, find out why. Bad experiences, distaste etc then tell her what you would like to try to make it easier for her. If she says it the smell then you can take a shower and wash very good, taste don't come in her mouth, jaw, hurting use a combination of hand and mouth.

Maybe start with licking like a popsicle up and down and tongue on top portion you get my drift don't want to get too graphic. Thats how i started with my current bf and i hated bj from past bad experiences. If i can get over it with a loving good man anyone can, you just have to approach it right.

Give more detail about why she will not do it.

I have talked to her before and all she said was she doesn't know how to do it and that she hates the test of the semen bla bla. She seems also not interested in trying and learning how to do it. But i think i will try to talk to her about it again and introduce those methods you guys mentioned. She might like it who knows. Thank you all for your advise.

[clumsygirl]

it is not big deal, women always be that way,it doesn't mean she don't love you .

[Allie602]

I have talked to her before and all she said was she doesn't know how to do it and that she hates the test of the semen bla bla. She seems also not interested in trying and learning how to do it. But i think i will try to talk to her about it again and introduce those methods you guys mentioned. She might like it who knows. Thank you all for your advise.

How does she seem uninterested? Don't assume anything and then let it go, here is where communication comes in and you can learn much from this experience. Never assume motives or attitudes always ask so you get it right. If she does not like taste then just start with licking as foreplay. tell her what turns you on. She wont be dealing with semen then. As you work your way to increased skills, be careful not to let her taste semen. Always be very clean and fresh.