I am a 25 year old overweight virgin, and my fiancée is a little on the husky side, he is currently going to the gym to lose weight. The other problem we're having is he's a little on the short side in the penis department, and every time we try, he can't seem to break the hymen wall, we try for hours but after a while he loses his erection and the moments over. What can we do?
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Gee, it's not that deep, actually it's right at the opening of the vagina, or should be anyway.. -
well it's hidden by a little extra pudge, and there are back problems from a previous car wreckComment
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Are you trying just missionary position, or are you trying a position for deeper penetration, such as doggy style? You can do a doggy style with both of you on your side, making it similar to spooning. Use pillows to get both of your hips at the same level.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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I don't know what to suggest but for your overall health why not start hitting the gym with him?
You might try being on top.Comment
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my spin has a curve in it, from the car wreck, so i'm not able to be on my knees very longComment
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Maybe if you could get in a position on your back - at the edge of the bed - where he can try to enter while kneeling in front of you or even standing up. Things like penis and stomach size probably won't be an issue if he can be perpendicular to you.Comment
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In all seriousness, IF you are actually really overweight, I would recommend lipo. It should reduce stress on your knees. Also there are plenty of sitting exercises that wont stress your knees. Use lipo as a beginning to help you start exercising. Do not rely on it.Comment
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