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    My fantasy, please comment

    Hi, I am a married man of 45. I have had a long term fantasy that I would like to play out with my wife. It would go as follows:
    I would ask my wife to dress to the hilt, black skirt, stocking and garters. I want her to go to a hotel bar and order a drink. I would arrive and sit at a different table and just eye her up. Eventually I would stop over and offer to buy her a drink. We would play out a scenario where we are both married to other spouses and just in town for a convention. I would hint at her going up to my room. She would play hard to get. Eventually, after enough drinks, I would convince her to come to my room. She would be reluctant but also very turned on. In the room we would kiss and then she would pull away, saying "we should'nt" but then we would continue kissing. I would would start to massage her breasts thru her shirt. She would moan "oh that feels soo good" We would continue to kiss and I would begin grinding my crotch into her skirt. She would moan and then pull back and say " I can't". I would start kissing her neck, she would relent and resume our grinding. I would reach down and pull her body hard into mine. We would both moan and grind harder. I'd eventually pull up her skirt and stroke her wondeful mound. Soon I would be on my knees with my face buried in her panties. We would end up having hours of hot sex.
    My question, would she think this scenario would be too weird? Would the acting out of an affair upset her the next time I really have to go out of town on business?
  • waya
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2010
    • 206

    Originally posted by Phil
    Would the acting out of an affair upset her the next time I really have to go out of town on business?
    Quite possibly but I can see why this is a fantasy. It's forbidden, for one thing. And you want her to be so turned on by you that she can't resist even though it's wrong. Is there another way you could live out those parts of your fantasy without the cheating on spouses part?

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    • WildChild
      Banned
      • Sep 2008
      • 14142

      Originally posted by Phil
      My question, would she think this scenario would be too weird? Would the acting out of an affair upset her the next time I really have to go out of town on business?
      ALready commented on part one elsewhere.

      If she is smart she would use this to ramp things up. That you want to do this with her, not while at a convention should be a good thing. When you do have to go to one, she (or you) could lay the ground work for some fun when you return. Or could you take her with you sometime and really play it out? Have her fly separately, get her own room, maybe some temp dye for a different hair color? Maybe you could do the same for her, not when your co-workers would question why you are dressing differently or suddenly have different colored hair.

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      • Guest

        Been there, did this...it was very HOT for me and my SO.

        Have also done variations or things similar....

        Nothing wrong with it in my mind as long as you know where your heart belongs (and that is with the woman that loves you).

        We've had a lot of fun with these types of scenarios.

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        • Texasred
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2009
          • 1216

          Originally posted by Phil
          Hi, I am a married man of 45. I have had a long term fantasy that I would like to play out with my wife. It would go as follows:
          I would ask my wife to dress to the hilt, black skirt, stocking and garters. I want her to go to a hotel bar and order a drink. I would arrive and sit at a different table and just eye her up. Eventually I would stop over and offer to buy her a drink. We would play out a scenario where we are both married to other spouses and just in town for a convention. I would hint at her going up to my room. She would play hard to get. Eventually, after enough drinks, I would convince her to come to my room. She would be reluctant but also very turned on. In the room we would kiss and then she would pull away, saying "we should'nt" but then we would continue kissing. I would would start to massage her breasts thru her shirt. She would moan "oh that feels soo good" We would continue to kiss and I would begin grinding my crotch into her skirt. She would moan and then pull back and say " I can't". I would start kissing her neck, she would relent and resume our grinding. I would reach down and pull her body hard into mine. We would both moan and grind harder. I'd eventually pull up her skirt and stroke her wondeful mound. Soon I would be on my knees with my face buried in her panties. We would end up having hours of hot sex.
          My question, would she think this scenario would be too weird? Would the acting out of an affair upset her the next time I really have to go out of town on business?
          She might not think it's too weird: She WILL be pretty suspicious of you next time you're out of town on business!

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