My hubby complains that we don't have sex enough and the sad thing is.. I really want to have more sex but 8 times out of 10 its painful at some point. Usually entry is pretty painful and it burns something fierce! Sometimes it burns and then goes away other times it lingers. We use plenty of lube so I know that's not the problem. It also burns like a MF when I pee afterwords whether or not its right after sex or 2 hours after. I do have chronic UTI's I'm sure that has something to do with it but I'm doing every thing I can to control those. I don't expect sex to be absolutely wonderful every time but I would just like it not to hurt... Has anyone found the cure yet?
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Hmm, i think you have to consider if such pain has occurred since the beginning or started after some point. if later is the case, there could be something unsual hapening. You could consult a doctor, and reading other postings, it may be some infection. Good luck.Comment
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have a doctor look at that. this was once a problem for me too. it would hurt so bad i was in tears, wen i saw the doc they found a skin tag in there that was causing the pain.Comment
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consult a doctor now. he will tell exactly what is the cause of that pain.Comment
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Dnt wry consult a doc u will b fine it may b sum infection even 1 of my had dis prob nw she is fine so jst calm dwnComment
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Dnt wry consult a doc u will b fine it may b sum infection even 1 of my had dis prob nw she is fine so jst calm dwn and visit a gud gynac . Speak to ur partner to do it slowly u both vl enjoy a lot nd might as wel ur pain vl b ok. Jst try itComment
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Why do have to use lube?
Are you not really aroused?
Are you adequately hydrated?
Do you take any meds such as antihistimenes that would dry you out?
Could you be allergic to the lube? Try one w/o parabens.
Do go get checked you could have an infection, if you do both you and your husband may need to be treated to really get rid of it.Comment
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Artificial lube won't help if you're not already internally aroused and relaxed as it is. Your vagina may not be prepared for intercourse when he enters. How much time do you spend on foreplay?
For me, having sex after orgasm really helps b/c the muscles are relaxed."Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"Comment
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