[Jim60]

Her favourite position when she is very aroused is cowgirl. She cums hard and is very loud indeed, and seems pretty wiped out afterwards which is great for us both.

However, I tend to cum a bit too soon in this position but can mostly stay hard long enough for her to finish. It's not always comfortable for me - but hey.

My main worry (apart form people in the next county getting woken up!) is that she goes for it really hard, full length in and out, and a few times having softened slightly I have slipped out and painfully (for me) banged my penis on her pubis as she crashed back down on me. Often just on the point she is nearly cumming, so frustrating for her too. Once she starts to cum it is fine as she pretty much goes into a spasm and I take over the thrusting.

I know there is a chance of doing real damage to myself like this, and wondered if anyone has experienced the same and found a way around it?

Or has the worst happened to you/your partner and it's ended with a visit to the Doctor?

[rcoreyus]

You can get injured that way so you do need to be a bit careful.

[WildChild]

Really don't like any slipping out. Does she know this can injure you?
If she moves back just a bit it may resolve the problem.

[jns]

Jim, squeeze your legs together to help maintain your erection after orgasm. Since she is doing all of the work, you can concentrate on staying hard for her. Also use your hands on her hips to slightly limit the upward motion.

[Guest]

Her favourite position when she is very aroused is cowgirl. She cums hard and is very loud indeed, and seems pretty wiped out afterwards which is great for us both.

However, I tend to cum a bit too soon in this position but can mostly stay hard long enough for her to finish. It's not always comfortable for me - but hey.

My main worry (apart form people in the next county getting woken up!) is that she goes for it really hard, full length in and out, and a few times having softened slightly I have slipped out and painfully (for me) banged my penis on her pubis as she crashed back down on me. Often just on the point she is nearly cumming, so frustrating for her too. Once she starts to cum it is fine as she pretty much goes into a spasm and I take over the thrusting.

I know there is a chance of doing real damage to myself like this, and wondered if anyone has experienced the same and found a way around it?

Or has the worst happened to you/your partner and it's ended with a visit to the Doctor?

this is risky...the slipping out part, that is.

i have seen first hand a guy with a penile fracture and i assure you, it ain't pretty. while you won't die, there is a chance if that happens to you that u will never ever use ur tool again. except maybe to take a leak.

[Texasred]

Really don't like any slipping out. Does she know this can injure you?
If she moves back just a bit it may resolve the problem.

Exactly what I was about to suggest; you may also find this position allows you to use one of your hands, your thumb actually. to apply a little pressure or a little friction to a certain spot, and you'll find that it speeds her orgasm along quite a bit, so the two of you can "come together," as the Beatles put it...

[Guest]

She can cup you and herself in her hand to hold you inside..

[Jim60]

Thanks all - some good things to try there. Don't want to spoil the fun but really don't like the sound of a fracture!

[FrostDominion]

Thanks all - some good things to try there. Don't want to spoil the fun but really don't like the sound of a fracture!

From personal experience, it is just as much painful for the female as it is for the man and No, you do NOT want to fracture it.
-shivers- Just the thought is enough to even make a chick wince.

But as for slipping out, take WildChild's advice and make her scoot back so her butt it hovering just over your jublies. Since after an orgasm, they relax, you shouldn't be in a bad position to let her ride you while scooted back.
Have fun and I wish you luck.