[Tool]

I have a sex question. My Wife and I were having sex issues where we were not doing it as much as I wanted. It turned out to be a desire issue, and after some marriage counseling we got things back working again. And our sex life is great. While we were having issues, the sex was still really good but we were having less of it.

When we have sex, we have great foreplay and she is ready to go when it is time to have sex. No lube needed and there is never pain. We do all kinds of different positions, and we both really enjoy oral.

But the problem is that she can only have an orgasm when she is on top, or when im giving her oral sex. She said she the orgasm she has when she is on top is amazing and she doesn't want to change things. But I still would like to be able to give her one when she isn't on top.

Any recommendations of things to do. She is open to anything, and we have great communication about our needs.

She has zero complaints about the sex we have, and we have a lot of it and she has an orgasm every time.

She does say that she doesn't like to have more then one orgasm. Although she does have multiple all the time. She says she wants the one she has to be great, because when she has more they are not as strong.

[Guest]

When in standard missionary position, move your entire body "up" towards her face as you begin to thrust, in order for your pubic bone to rub on her clitoral area.

This may help her achieve orgasm while you are on top. It may take a little practice, so keep at it!

[WildChild]

Try missionary with her legs up on your shoulders.
A little trick I heard about this weekend from sex expert, educator and film maker, JamYe WaXman, try a C (edited word) ring about halfway down your shaft to keep from full penetration. That will focus the action at the top third of her vagina which is where her most responsive areas are. Apparently this really does it for some women.

[Texasred]

Try missionary with her legs up on your shoulders.
A little trick I heard about this weekend from sex expert, educator and film maker, JamYe WaXman, try a C (edited word) ring about halfway down your shaft to keep from full penetration. That will focus the action at the top third of her vagina which is where her most responsive areas are. Apparently this really does it for some women.

You can also get a similar effect, in the missionary position, by putting a pillow under her hips, the man supporting himself on his elbows or hands so his upper torso is raised up: this changes to angle of entry significantly, making contact in the aforementioned "most responsive areas."
It's well worth trying...

[Liam_680]

the best way to get a woman to orgasm is her clit, no matter what position it is

[waya]

the best way to get a woman to orgasm is her clit, no matter what position it is

Maybe fastest but not necessarily best

[Guest]

I've never worn a Canary ring before, have little idea what they're really for, but as inexperienced as I appear to be by this statement, going to have to give one a try.

How on earth does one know what size to buy?

Okay, stop laughing...I can hear it ! On second thought, go right ahead, laughter is good for the soul !

[rcoreyus]

Another position that can work is her lying flat on her stomach and you entering from behind - the angle can work well for hitting the g-spot. (how this works depends on your relative sizes etc.

[LanaBear]

Keeping in mind that she is pregnant, you will have to get more and more creative the further along she gets. It may get uncomfortable for her no matter which position you both decide to try. Man on top gets extremely difficult when you are about 7+ months along. As her body changes, many times so does what feels good and what doesn't. Be sure to openly talk to her about what is pleasurable and what is not, things are changing so quickly, just because something worked last week, doesn't mean it will work this week.

Doggie style, IMO, is wonderful, however, when I was pregnant, I hated it, the penetration was too deep. This is when we developed our "lazy" position as we like to call it. Have her lay on her back and you on your side so that you almost have a "t" shape together. Her right leg is between yours and her left leg is on your left shoulder/arm. This way, both you and her have easy access to her clit, this was a wonderful position when I was pregnant. If that description makes any sense, it actually has proven great.