[alisha121]

Hey girls, I'm a 17 year old girl who is still a virgin and i have been trying to pleasure myself i mean i used to hump a stuffed teddy and that used to get me hot and used to help but now ive started to finger myself and i am getting nothing from it well i do for like 5 minutes then it stops and i get bored. I have never had an orgasm and i am trying to have one so this is why i have started to finger myself. I am also thinking of buying a vibrater do you think this would help? Advice please please please

[WildChild]

Try getting your fingers good and wet (saliva works well) and start playing with your clit. Most women find that the 2 o'clock and 10 o'clock spots are most sensitive. See what feels goods, if you start feeling a warm tingle anyplace (for me its often my feet) you know you are on the right track. It can take some time, just keep exploring what feels good.
Yes a vibrator can help you get there faster and know what an orgasm feels like.

[alisha121]

ok thanks i will keep trying

[LilahX]

A vibrator is a great idea. They pack a wallop and should give you results in a short space of time and save your fingers getting tired. Also, you can concentrate more on 'finding the right spot'. YOu'll k now it when you find it.

[alisha121]

yeah i was looking at some and i was thinking of getting the small bullet ones do you guys think they are good? and what does an actual orgasam feel like?

[Little_Miss_Me]

Bullets are great, especially for a virgin.

Orgasms are probably the hardest thing to explain ever. Just let me make a promise to you: YOU'LL KNOW.

I'm not so sure if you know much about your body yet, or you're doing things that just feel "natural". I'm guessing the second.

When fingering, you'll want to focus on two spots, your clit or your g-spot. If you want to know more about those spots, google images and you'll get a better idea of the location and what stimulation are best. From there, let nature take it's course.

[alisha121]

yeah thanks for your advice and yeah it was the second hahaha yeah i think i will just have to explore abit more and get to know myself