Looks like some good advice. My advice, listen to the others and no matter what, do not marry him until this issue of frequency of sex has been resolved. This issue is a major marital issue. Side note, my experience is that you can turn a guy on in about 5 minutes and you can turn a woman on in about 2 hours 48 minutes and 2 seconds. If you cant get him revved in 5 minutes, probably something wrong psychologically (depression or what ever). Be compasonate to one another and see what can be worked out.
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Yes, thank you all for the advice. For months i have felt like it was me that was the problem and occasionally i still feel that way. However, i have brought the issue up enough times, he is plenty aware that our sex life is a problem for me. So now the ball is in his court and i'm going to keep my mouth shut..i think if i bring it up anymore its just going to keep putting pressure on the situation and nothing will get solved..i'm going to give it a few weeks and see if any progress gets made..keeping my fingers crossed!Comment
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