what do u think ?
i am a male , & my wife refuse having that .
please help me ..
i am a male , & my wife refuse having that .
please help me ..
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Ok....
Well do you love your wife?
You married her and you had it before you married her but she doesn't want to....
Does she say not to lots of things or only that?
I understand you don't talk much English....
Are you happy in your marriage otherwise?
Is this so important that you would be okay with losing your marriage?
Only asking yoru answers are very short.PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!Comment
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How long have you been married?
Does she orgasm from anal sex?
Has she orgasmed from vaginal sex?
Do you have children? Is she afraid of getting pregnant?
What do you do to help her be aroused before intercourse?Comment
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If she refuses anal sex, then you have to accept it. If she refuses vaginal sex then you both have a problem. To me anal sex is not natural. I accept that consenting adults can do this if they wish, but no woman should ever be forced to have it. Think about this, what if she demanded she poked you up the back passage with some impliment to give her sexual satisfaction? Would you accept it if it felt uncomfortable or painful/embarrassing? There's your answer.Comment
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I think that Wild Child is on to it- I think that memozein may have introduced his wife to anal and now she doesn't want anything else. Possibly she finds it easier to orgasm that way.
memozein- you need to maybe distract her onto something like oral sex.
Or maybe get her a dildo for use on her bottom while you have vaginal sex with her.
Make sure you are giving her clitoral stimulation when you are making love as well.Comment
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many thanks for all .. the sammary is :
1- she refuse .
2- i don't want make her angree, bet anal sex atract me
3- how must she do to reatract me again to vagina .Comment
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I'd say she did it for you to start with and it hurts, ask her why, is it for that reason? And read up more if so here, on Anal Sex...
If you love your wife, you will find it attractive again to you, does she like oral? Try extensive love making to her first and it will feel simular as she will contract alot...PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!Comment
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