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  • Shana
    Junior Member
    • Mar 2011
    • 2

    hi am new here and was hoping to find some advice

    Watching movies and stuff about sex really interests me and makes me have a passion for it but unfortunately anytime my partner and i have sex,i end up not feeling anything and mostly pretend to be enjoyong it!
  • pretzel
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 1557

    Fantasy is not always reality. Seems to me that you imagine what you see on either the computer or on your tv and when it doesn't feel like what you imagine, you lose the interest.

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    • rcoreyus
      Veteran Member
      • Sep 2007
      • 4369

      Is your partner willing to do what you want in bed? If so, just keep experimenting - different people like different things.

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        How old are each of you? How much previous sexual experience do you have? How aware of your own body are you as it relates to what feels good and what doesn't feel good? Is sexual activity openly discussed and accepted or is it something that isn't talked about?

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