I am not a woman, but I am coming here in hopes that I can get insight/advice from women and, because I don't know where else to go. I love my girlfriend very much, but lately I have been noticing some severe tension, possibly even my fault.
I do everything I can to make her very happy in the bedroom, trying new things she wants, and doing other things I know she enjoys. I have never had any complaints, and unless she is a great actor I have producing good results for almost 2 years now, and I've been told that by her a lot in many ways.
Under normal circumstances I don't think masturbation is a bad thing, especially if your significant other isn't there and you are really ready, but lately instead of spending time with me she has been going in the bathroom for some "alone time," and doing this more often lately (3-4 times in the last 2 days).
I... don't know why this hurts me so much, but it feels like I am failing, and doing something wrong. When i tried to talk to her about it, she got really defensive and then angry. She says that everything is fine, and it doesn't mean anything, but when I am laying in bed and she goes into the bathroom/shower for her "alone time", I don't know how else to feel but being rejected. We still had sex once each day, but it felt more obligatory then wanted.
Am I over analyzing this? Blowing it out of proportion? It is causing some stress and agitiation outside the bedroom, so it is an issue for me.
I do everything I can to make her very happy in the bedroom, trying new things she wants, and doing other things I know she enjoys. I have never had any complaints, and unless she is a great actor I have producing good results for almost 2 years now, and I've been told that by her a lot in many ways.
Under normal circumstances I don't think masturbation is a bad thing, especially if your significant other isn't there and you are really ready, but lately instead of spending time with me she has been going in the bathroom for some "alone time," and doing this more often lately (3-4 times in the last 2 days).
I... don't know why this hurts me so much, but it feels like I am failing, and doing something wrong. When i tried to talk to her about it, she got really defensive and then angry. She says that everything is fine, and it doesn't mean anything, but when I am laying in bed and she goes into the bathroom/shower for her "alone time", I don't know how else to feel but being rejected. We still had sex once each day, but it felt more obligatory then wanted.
Am I over analyzing this? Blowing it out of proportion? It is causing some stress and agitiation outside the bedroom, so it is an issue for me.
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