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  • kimaya
    Member
    • Apr 2011
    • 11

    For me oral sex receiving n giving both feels gud ...preferring one of them alwz will be injustice wth our partner....even they must get chance.

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    • demotivator
      Member
      • Nov 2010
      • 41

      When there is no hurry I make a game out of giving, so I absolutely love it.

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      • Tod121
        Senior Member
        • Feb 2011
        • 125

        Originally posted by WildChild
        You all know how I feel about balance.
        However I want one at a time. I like to focus on what I am giving or what I am receiving. I cannot handle both at the same time.
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        We have done 69 a few times but we seem to prefer 1 at a time too. Can you really give proper oral sex to a women in the 69 position, if you know what I mean ;-)

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        • Jim60
          Member
          • Dec 2010
          • 60

          Well, I'm in the minority who enjoys receiving more. I enjoy both of course, sometimes at the same time though less so. I enjoy going down on her, and don't of course expect a BJ in return every time and the same goes for her. But the sensation of getting is better than giving.

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          • jns
            Assistant Admin
            • Mar 2010
            • 8398

            Originally posted by Tod121
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            We have done 69 a few times but we seem to prefer 1 at a time too. Can you really give proper oral sex to a women in the 69 position, if you know what I mean ;-)
            Sure you can. Depending on what your lady likes, you can use your tongue, your lower lip or combination of both. If you are on the bottom, you might want to use a pillow or folded pillow to get your head in the right place. You can also get a great view of her legs transitioning to her butt and her butt.
            I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
            ...
            Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

            From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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