My gf is on the pill, had the STD talk, and been tested (both clean). We regularly have sex without condoms and have for a while. Last time we played, she seemed interested in trying anal sex and the next time we get together I think its going to happen. I don't really know what to expect and want to be a nice guy about it, so I'm looking for the opinions of women who have been there. Since we don't use condoms normally and both hate them, should I expect that I don't need to bring any and if she lets me in (obviously with plenty of lube) without one, should I expect I can c.um there without pulling out?
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It's more hygienic to use a condom. But not, per se, necessary. I'm a huge fan, but we've never used condoms for it. You do want to make sure that you DO NOT go anal to vaginal. If you are going to do anal, stay with anal until after things are cleaned up so that there is no contamination into the vaginal because it may cause an infection for her.
Yes, you can cum inside her through anal.
Use plenty of lube, go SLOW, start with a finger or two, get her used to the sensation and work up from there. It's important for her to relax and easier if she can bear down, as if trying to have a bowel movement. It will expand her rectal muscles and make for easier entry. When you do go to actually penetrating with your penis, take it easy, move in slowly and let her adjust, a little more, let her adjust, more, adjust, etc. -
I take it if you've never used condoms for anal, you've let him cum in there. If so, will the cum being in there make her really uncomfortable once I'm done? Will it leak out like in vaginal sex or will it remain until intentionally released?Comment
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After being on this forum for almost two years, I've realized that I've been lucky to never once have any issues with it. I've never had any embarrassing things happen due anal sex. I've never had any leaking. Just stays where it is, lol, I guess, until I have my next BM...
With that said, expect for something to happen, it may or it may not. Don't be shocked or act put off, if certain things happen, there are many stories on this forum about stuff that has happened during anal play/sex. If the two of you are going to venture there, then, just expect some things.Comment
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It does leak out on me if i leave it in there to long, so after we're done i clean it out the best i can..Comment
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What goes up must come down.
Not really a big deal but if that is a concern, use a condom.Comment
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Excellent advice from three amazing women.Comment
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