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  • oxy-moron
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2010
    • 551

    I hope your man realises how lucky he is and that he doesn't waste your potential.

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    • bernardcat
      Junior Member
      • Jun 2011
      • 3

      What really helped me was having sex where I couldnt make noise. So, at my parents house, when my brother was home, ect .. Now that we live alone I can. But, when we visit my parents I love being quiet!! It has become a challenge. My finance also enjoys the cursing. I generally whisper oh and that really turns him on. Start slow. When you have an amazing orgasm, you will feel more comfortable letting it go.

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      • melsand
        Junior Member
        • Jul 2011
        • 6

        Sometimes, I only moan because I know it helps get him off. But sometimes I moan because it feels great and I can't help it. My boyfriend has said that it never gets annoying and always turns him on, but I feel self conscious about it sometimes anyways.

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        • Firefly3
          Junior Member
          • Aug 2011
          • 7

          My bf and watch porn together, and I'm trying to open myself up to being better in bed. So he suggested me to do what they do. But when I think of it, they sound soo fake. It is hard to moan when you are told to. It took me a while to get into my own..groove, lol. But just start out small, get into the sex. Just don't think of moaning, and saying his name. If you're in a position where it feels amazing, go ahead and try sang his name. I love saying my bf's name. Andimtell he likes it too.

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          • Firefly3
            Junior Member
            • Aug 2011
            • 7

            *my bf and I..

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            • Guest

              I skimmed, so I apologize if this has been mentioned, but it might help to start moaning into a pillow. You can feel a little more comfortable letting loose a bit, without him really hearing you. All he will hear are muffled sounds, and thats sexy anyway! After you try that for a while, you might be more comfortable with the sounds you make naturally, and feel okay without the pillow.

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              • jns
                Assistant Admin
                • Mar 2010
                • 8398

                I think any moans should be natural, but if you can shape them for your lover, all the better. But if you become annoyed with a lover requesting something you cannot deliver, maybe you can moan out a TV jingle or something.
                I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                ...
                Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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