[NaturalChikk]

Have you considered bringing a toy into bed? How about using a flavored lube, that might make him feel more comfortable with oral sex. There are also a lot of really effective creams on the market that enhance g-spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation.. just be sure to look for ones with natural ingredients, which will be less likely to be irritating to you.

Not all women oragasm from intercourse, and not all women orgasm all the time. Try your best to relax. It's not about the orgasm, it's about having fun and enjoying each other! Good luck

[star18210]

I have had similar issues. I had been with 3 guys in the past and never had an orgasm until the guy now. I really enjoy oral so that is the boost for me. Have you considered adding another to the fun? A female or a male? Maybe they would try oral on you. I know it may sound out there but sometimes it can really increase your excitment. I hardly ever orgasm during intercourse. Try vibrators or some other type of toy that you are both comfortable with. Also do not stress over it, it is a special time between you and your partner.

[panda]

Success! Thank you all for your advice. It's nice to know that there's somewhere I can go to get other people's opinions and advice about this sort of thing. (I'm learning to just have fun with like, like lots of you said. And, what do you know, it is much more fun! ) My boyfriend and I have talked more about the oral thing, and I think we have everything straightened out. Again, thank you all so much.