[star18210]

Alright guys this is my first time here so please tell me if I am going about it wrong.
Background : I am 20 and am currently involved with another couple. We have been together a while. In the begining it was like we could not wait to have sex now its not so exciting. They used to go to swingers clubs and thing like that before me. Believe me he is very talented in bed but sometimes I feel like we are all missing something. How can I/we (me and the other girl) spice it up for him? Also how could I tell them that I am interested in adding another girl? AlthoughI want it to be clear that it is only for fun and nothing permenant.I love receiving oral but I am not that into giving it to a guy. Also would love to have points on giving longer oral. Crazy situation.. I know! Any tips will help!

[jns]

What you may be missing is a loving relationship instead of one based on sex.

That aside, do you give oral and have other forms of sex with the other girl? Or are both of you just taking turns with the guy? I'm not sure how adding another girl will make things more exciting. Do you want to do it so there are two couples that swap?

[rcoreyus]

If you are alrady invovled in a 3-some, there shouldn't be any awkwardness about asking to add someone else. Clearly all involved are pretty open.

As far as how to spice thigns up - discuss everyone's fantasies and play to them.