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  • simply.arie
    Member
    • May 2011
    • 12

    question about getting aroused

    Me and my boyfriend sometimes will watch porn to get ourselves aroused, but I have found that sometimes lesbian porn arouses me more than just a man and a woman having sex. I just wanted to know if this is normal.. and if anyone else feels the same.
  • Mes T
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 2678

    What kind of porn exactly do you watch together? Let me... in a bit of a cynical way... set up what I think the scene is:

    Man gropes woman

    Woman bends over

    Man penetrates woman

    Man ejaculates on woman

    The End.

    I think most women wouldn't care for something like that, as nothing about that focuses on the woman having pleasure, or her being on the receiving end of some genuine stimulation.

    Lesbian porn is all about women pleasing each other, and I think that in and of itself is attractive. The equality in those videos. You know?

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    • ItsASecret
      APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
      • Apr 2009
      • 3721

      I get bored of porn really easily because I am not attracted to women, nor using them like a piece of meat, and it is really predictable so I just ignore porn. But if I am going to watch it will be lesbian porn, not for the women because again I do not care for women but for the reason that it is not so scripted. I know the 'pleasure' they are giving is not real, porn has nothing to do with pleasure, but the lesbian porn makes it appear as though there actually is pleasure going on. So yes totally normal for a woman to be watching other women have sex with each other.
      There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.

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