[ecortez]

We have been having sex for 7 years. For the first 2 years we did not used protection, then we started using condoms. It has been more than 2 years that my vagina has becoming very dry. It started slowly and now it is very hard for me to get wet. We tried to used lubricant but whenever we have sex without condoms his penis burns and hurts. One time he even got a cut. We are getting married soon and we want to have a baby, but we can't have sex without condoms! What can I do

[jns]

Having the baby could be possible by your bf ejaculating on the opening of your vagina after masturbating and you using your fingers to introduce the semen deeper into the vagina.

Do you have any sort of infection or discharge? Is your bf circumcised or uncircumcised? Are you trimmed or natural? Are you using a lot of lubrication? Have you tried different lubricants? Are you extremely tight and or your bf extremely large?

[WildChild]

What kind of products are you using? Spermicide? Vaginal washes or sprays? Douches? Lubes? Do you use latex or latex free condoms?

[oxy-moron]

Firstly it is safer to do some sample testing with any lubes. A lot can contain additives that will burn sensitive skin. A lot of newer products are trying to add a bit of extra sensation with ingredients that can also increase irritation. Do some spot testing like you would for a cleaning product.

Your natural Lube is associated with Estrogen levels. You can boost them with diet- go to a health food shop for advice on this- but Fish Oil and Evening primrose oil supplements will help. Phytoestrogens can also be found in things like Wild Yams. Trials on L-arginine and Ginko have shown to boost blood flow to the genitals and this can improve lubrication as well.

Regular massage with your partner will boost Oxytocin levels and this will help to raise Estrogen in turn.

Try a few things -experiment find out what works for you.