It doesn't sound like it is in your nature to truly be controlling, so the acting controlling is easily seen through. It just isn't who you are. A phobia about germs is hard to overcome on top of the other symptoms.
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I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
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I'd be getting the running shoes. How unfair. If she really wants to fake it she'l do a good job. If she is coming but finding most other things like kissing (what girl doesn't love making out??) pesky and gross it sounds as though she has intimacy issues. She sounds like a 50's Mormon housewife (sorry if I offend anyone, I'm just painting a generalized picture) u need intimacy and so does she. Maybe that's the only thing that gets her off and she resents everything else as it doesn't make her orgasm. Sounds like she takes u for granted. Cut off the fingering and don't respond to the flirting and maybe shell realise she's not going to get away with it forever and have a REAL conversation with you. She may not be attracted to u as much anymore but comfortable staying in the relationship.If I knew where I was going I would already be there
I wish I had more time. Judicious, beautiful, augmented, whatever.
I've always been afraid to die, but I think I'm more afraid to live. (BC, SP)
"I would go out tonight, but i havent got a stitch to wear!" MorisseyComment
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I think you should move on. No reasonable person could possibly think that this is okay with you. You're only 22. Enjoy your youth.Comment
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