[grace1992]

Ive recently started seeing this guy and the sex is passionate and intimate and amazing. But hes always always on top, I feel really bad but I just can't do it, I don't know what to do, I can never get his penis to go inside me when I get on top and i'm quite big as well which seems to make it more difficult, i'm really worried he will loose his erection as well which is really embaressing for him and me ): I really need some help on what to do, it's not fair on him if hes always on top and I don't want him to get bored. Please help!!!
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[PinkySweet]

I can never get my fiances penis inside me without his help when im on top. He usually holds it and helps it in... Im sure you boyfriend could atleast do that. It takes practice to get some positions down. Im on the heavier side too, but my boyfriend doesnt loose erection, he just usually holds it to the whole and I sit down... and if you can be on top yall could always try other positions like: doggy, spooning, when hes on top he can put your legs on his shoulders...theres alot of different things.

[stressed]

Is it bad if they have to hold it to get inside? I've never managed this without help either but I don't think it's much of a problem. I wonder what a man's view would be on that.

[Beckers]

Your love-making involves two people, that means you help each other out and work together to make it better and better every time. This often involves awkward situations when attempting new positions. There is nothing wrong with trying something and letting your partner to help you until you get the right penetration or the right rhythm. With a new partner, sex is a work in progress. It's not a big deal for him to hold it while you climb on. And if the sex is as passionate and crazy as you say, what makes you think he will lose his erection? Just go for it. He's obviously into you, and probably wants to see the side of you that takes charge in the bedroom. He'll be into it, and he'll be willing to assist you.

[rcoreyus]

Since I haven't had this problem I can't tell what is going on - what doesn't work?

[Little]

Do you reach down with your hands to guide him in while on top? I find that helps a great deal. As others have mentioned, new positions can be really, really awkward! That's why trust is such an important component to sexual relationships

[jns]

But hes always always on top, I feel really bad but I just can't do it, I don't know what to do, I can never get his penis to go inside me when I get on top and i'm quite big as well which seems to make it more difficult, i'm really worried he will loose his erection as well which is really embaressing for him and me ): I really need some help on what to do, it's not fair on him if hes always on top and I don't want him to get bored.

Please describe the difficulties. Can You reach down between your legs and guide him in?