[eternalxflame]

Before anyone asks, I have googled and searched numerous times for an answer to my specific question...but I never find anything.

I am a virgin, but I have masturbated for a while now. When I was younger I was almost positive I was having an orgasm each time...but after researching, now I am unsure. I get several contractions (on average about 4 big ones and then smaller ones) and I guess what you would call a tingly feeling in the vagina...I don't want to say it's a "have to urinate" sensation, but I suppose if anything that is how I would describe it. I always do clitoral stimulation, either by hand or vibrator. The sensations are always the same and they feel good...once in a blue moon I'll get a very slight tingling sensation in my feet. But this is all. My heartbeat remains steady as well as my breathing...no increasing. I don't become hot or start sweating. Any ideas?

[wendilee]

if it feels good to you, then dont try to fix it. make sure your always relaxed. and dont think about having an orgasm. that makes it too much like work. its all for pleasure...

[Little_Man_in_the_Boat]

Whats an orgasm like ....

I can't explain as a women what an orgasm is like, what I can tell you is what it feels like on the other side or other end of an orgasm from a mans perspective.

I look at a true orgasm as being either very mild up to being very powerful, the difference I guess is how much forplay, or whatever it is that turns you on the most.

The quality of the foreplay and factors that arouse a women I guess is a factor in how good a womens orgasm is.

The best orgasm that I was fortunately able to witness and experience was incredible.

OK what happened and what it was like, to answer your question and determine if you are really having an orgasm or not.

After a lot of foreplay maybe 7+ hours (no penetration) she was profoundly saturated in what looks like sweat, total body saturation wet hair and water on her back that I skimmed off whith my hands and to my shock all over myself.

Wet hair, wet body, very high heart rate maybe over 200+ beats per minute.

On being allowed to enter her, i felt her keegle muscles clamp around my penis (which shocked me) eventually this constriction caused me to ...., so its incredibly tight and wet and slippery.

What I could feel was the very intense pleasure from the really tight keegle muscles constricting around my penis, her muscles spasmed initially quickly then slowly subsided until i was limp and then the od wave of spasm until I woke up out of this what was like a dreamlike state, feel amazing, euphoria, bonding towards her quite strong feeling of love and intimacy happiness and contentment.

It really is an amazing feeling.

I think you need a man that is a good lover is emotional and caring and deep to be able to get you to that place that I believe is quite rare.