[Izzabella]

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I have tried to research this, but have not come across an answer!

I can squirt. Pretty easily, once my G-spot if stimulated. I can squirt 99.9% of the time I am with my boyfriend.
I can orgasm from clitoral stimulation, and do often while masturbating.
But never have I ever had a vaginal orgasm.
I know I haven't, because although squirting is nice I have Definitely Not had anything close to the sensations I have read women to have when they orgasm.
What do I do? We try all different positions and simulations, but I never feel anywhere close to it.

In additional info, I have had an ongoing bladder infection (I can't hold it in very well) that has not gone away from prescription medicine from my doctor (although this has not done anything to my sex life besides making it difficult for me to hold in ejaculation).
I have also read that you need a good amount of testosterone to orgasm. But I believe I do. I have a very high sex drive and am interested in both sexes.

Any advice guys? It's so frustrating that he gets so much pleasure and I don't :/

[Ashlee T.]

After squirting, does the sex continue or is that pretty much it?

For me, squirting (or in my case, it's more "dripping") and orgasm are totally seperate. Both feel amazing, but they're different. Squirting feels like "ohh ....release" but orgasm feels like "#%!$#$#$!!!!!!!" So, squirting usually happens quite some time before orgasm. It requires continued fast penetration. Most guys I've been with have trouble maintaining the level of speed needed for that moment, so I've only achieved this during actual sex with one man. All other times it's on my own. Perhaps you should test it out on your own for a bit....find out what makes it happen for you, and then go from there?

[oxy-moron]

G spot Orgasm and squirting aren't 100% tied together. Either can occur independently or together. As with the rest of sex there are no hard or fast rules.
Squirting can occur just through clit stimulation alone but seems to mainly need rough stimulation of the front wall of the Vagina.
You can also have good G-spot, vaginal orgasm without squirting.
Try having your boyfriend stimulate the front wall of vagina(first inch or two) Not too roughly but the frequency should be quite high. Alternate this with clit stimulation for 60 seconds.(Possibly best if you do the clit stim)
Once you feel you are about to come get him to carry on the vaginal stimulation. This should give you a blended orgasm that feels longer and stronger than a clit orgasm.

[Izzabella]

Thank you both for your information!

Beautiful Disaster, sex doesn't really continue after squirting. For one, because he thinks that I have orgasmed. But for two, it feels very weird to keep going after squirting. It kinda feels like continuing clit stimulation after you have orgasmed.
But I have tried to keep going after I squirt. And it doesn't really feel all that great. Am I just not going for long enough? I know everyone is different, but how should it averagely take?

And when I try your advice, oxy-moron, I end up coming close to clitoral orgasm, or close to squirting, but am still not finding anything I haven't felt before (which is those two things). =/ Maybe it's just the longevity of it all. I just need to go longer?

[oxy-moron]

I should have explained it better- what you are trying to is piggyback a Gspot Orgasm onto a clit Orgasm. You need to be having or starting the Clit Orgasm while you are getting Gspot attention. The point being that you dont have to stimulate the GSpot that hard or constantly but you must be doing it at the moment of Clitoral Orgasm.
You will have to experiment with it and try it a few times to get the gist of it.