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  • coolstorybro
    Junior Member
    • Aug 2011
    • 2

    Dirty talk problems.

    While I was engaging in foreplay with my bf he said that I should talk dirty to him, but the thing is i have no idea how!

    I find the whole concept of it just too weird and I know that if I tried i'll just get stuck trying to think of something and look like a fool ,or i'll end up saying something that will turn him off, but I wanna please him so I wanna give it a try.

    I've thought about telling him a sexy story on the phone because he does that for me but again I have no idea what to say, cause i know i'll stuff up or end up laughing.

    Any suggestions on what i should do or say? Help would be greatly appreciated
  • sungem77
    Member
    • Feb 2010
    • 39

    you can start ver simply. ask him what he wants you to say and then just repeat it.

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    • Elanor-Jane
      Veteran Member
      • Aug 2011
      • 211

      I'm trying to get my bf to do this (hehe) he's so sweet he's struggling a bit but that's ok!

      If u really don't want to just say so he'll het over it. I used to be shy like this too but you grow into stuff like that. Just start by telling him how much u like this and that and use a few expletives. For example " baby I love it when u have your .......down my throat. But only if u like it etc don't give him the wrong idea. I guess u have to like dirty fullstop to dirty talk....hmmm
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