[Elanor-Jane]

There is a lot of talk on this forum about women needing to loosen up, so to speak and enjoy all there is on offer as far a sex is concerned, that it makes relationships stronger to be as sexual and somewhat deviant as possible.

Just wondering how many men out there (at least on this forum, as that's what were working with) enjoy such things as as anal play, incl finger and toy penetration, licking, being performed on them and why/why not?

There seems to be an expectation that if women open themselves up to an array of sexual practices everyone is happy.
What do the women here think their partners or men in general need to do more of? Or what's your major fantasy that you want to fulfill with your parnter but he just won't go for it?

Cheers!

[ska1331]

Well I honestly can't think of anything I wouldn't try with my wife. About the only thing I've ever declined to do was sex in public, but that's due to having been caught before. I would be game for fulfilling near any fantasy my wife has. If only she would let me know what they were.

[Guest]

Almost anything is fair game with me too. If my SO is up for it, or at least trying it, then that's okay with me too. Exceptions: Pain and anything involving waste...human or otherwise. To each their own.

As for anal, been there, had it done to me. Not my thing, it wasn't hers either. One never knows until you try.

I think it is perceived in our (American) society that women are more uptight about sex then men are. I said perceived, whether that is reality or not, we may never know. Based on that perception, it is believed that women need to "loosen up" more than men when it comes to all things sexual.

My SO is very comfortable with her body, being naked, being sexual. I too am quite comfortable with my body, being naked and exploring things sexually.

To me, what's important is what goes on between consenting adults based on open, honest communication. The bedroom is no place for B.S. - IMO.

[Elanor-Jane]

Well I honestly can't think of anything I wouldn't try with my wife. About the only thing I've ever declined to do was sex in public, but that's due to having been caught before. I would be game for fulfilling near any fantasy my wife has. If only she would let me know what they were.

Lol u must have been caught good! Like cops? My ex and I were caught in public but just by a young guy wandering past, it was very funny, my bf at the time just started yelling at him like it was inappropriate for him to be there not us! So it's a funny memory.

I think I would like more spontaneous sex, everything seems so planned in my bfs busy life, he has to allocate time for everything and it makes things so boring and predictable sometimes.

[ska1331]

Yep got caught pretty good. Was busted on prom night. They let me go because I was a minor but my gf wasn't. Unfortunately I was busted several times before I was 18. Kinda put a damper on some adventurous things.
On another note, I've found as I've gotten older I long for more intimacy in my relationship. Don't get me wrong, I'm still not done exploring the sexual side of my marriage,just now I also so want intimacy at times too.

[fellowsquare]

Well.. my wife is almost always ready to go. She prefers good old fashioned "Sexy" and "Hot Sex"... by the vanilla standard definition. I however am more open to kink and trying new things. She has not had much exposure to various types of kink and I have tried on a few occassions to open her up to things. I have opened up to her recently about my past bi-sexual experiences in the past and am very open to anal play, voyeurism, etc. We have done some filming, tying up, she tried some anal. We have recently revisited her love for breastfeeding roleplaying. She absolutely loves to pretend to breastfeed me as she was my mother. She has really shown some strong feelings for this fetish. I think I'm going to take that up a notch as I have found something that gets her super excited. But me as the husband am ready and willing when she is. No boundaries here

[PinkySweet]

Hmmm, I think my fiances up for anything! Lol I tell him about my fantasies and he comes running. He use to like to plan out before hand what he'd do to me but he said it made him excited and he liked the wait until he could actually do what he planned, but lately hes been very spontaneous and I love you.

I do find it wierd sometimes that he insists on pleasuring me first before I do him... But its always nice he wants to make sure I get mine