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  • jacky89
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2011
    • 1

    bleeding after trying sex

    hello.
    im new to this.
    i am 22 yrs old. and a virgin on morning of 9/14 at 6 am me and my bf tried having sex for the first time but when he put his penis but less then an inch and it hurt me so he took it out and then he tried fingering me but that hurt too so we stopped. i did not bleed any that time. i am having cramps and around 5 pm after 11 hrs i started bleeding and i am still bleeding. my period ended on the 9/4/11 is this normal
    i dont know y im bleeding
    plz plz plz help
    thank you
  • Elanor-Jane
    Veteran Member
    • Aug 2011
    • 211

    could just be a longer period, could be your hymen. if your that worried about it and in alot of pain go see your doctor
    If I knew where I was going I would already be there
    I wish I had more time. Judicious, beautiful, augmented, whatever.
    I've always been afraid to die, but I think I'm more afraid to live. (BC, SP)

    "I would go out tonight, but i havent got a stitch to wear!" Morissey

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    • Mes T
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2009
      • 2678

      Were you dry when you tried to have sex? You need to be VERY wet, horny, physically and mentally "in the moment" for sex to be enjoyable. My first time was sort of like yours (trying to shove a penis into a dry vagina) and I wondered why the heck it wasn't going in very far.

      Otherwise I second Elanor's post.

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