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  • PinkSandsLover
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    • Sep 2011
    • 18

    New to Squirting, errrr... dribbling


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    I'm single and in my late 40's and have not been sexually active (including much masturbation) for years due to meds.

    Recently I started masturbating again and to my surprise I started to squirt. Actually, it is just a dribble. It feels a little nice, but it is certainly not a g-spot orgasm (which I have also yet to experience.. no rush here).

    Personally, I don't care if I squirt or dribble. I figure if I were having sex with a man either would be messy, but nice.

    I'm just wondering why I only dribble. Does every woman start that way and then learn to focus for squirting? Does this mean my pelvic muscles are just too relaxed because I am not having an orgasm?

    TIA for your input!
    Last edited by Alison H.; 09-07-2021, 05:04 PM.
  • kristalyn_04
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 2164

    I don't "squirt" in the actual sense of the word either, on the rare occasion when I do ejaculate it's just a trickle or drips. I don't ever try to squirt (I'd rather keep my sheets dry lol), but if I was, I think it's just a matter of bearing down on the pelvic muscles at the right time. There might be more fluid involved with a g-spot orgasm, but I wouldn't know... I've never had one of those either (yet).

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    • PinkSandsLover
      Member
      • Sep 2011
      • 18

      Thanks Kristalyn. It's good to know I'm not the only one.

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