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  • Loving_him_and_life
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2011
    • 1

    Wanting him to be happy

    Hey guys. This is my first time posting on the website and i really need some advice.
    Me and my boyfriend have been giving and recieving oral for about a year. We're both are new at doing oral. He has looked things up and can get me really excited and is great at what he does.
    I, on the other hand, have being trying to figure out how to get him excited as much as he gets me. I'm having trouble finding things that I wanna try and see if he would like it.
    I want advice on how to give a bj that would blow his mind and make him crave me more. Help?
    You know you're kinda cute as a nerd. You're rocking the nerd look. ~ Trevor
  • Darling
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2010
    • 360

    ask him what feel good

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      Some guys just don't get that excited by oral (I'm that way). Don't stop your quest to get better at giving him great oral, but realize that he may find other things more stimulating. He may find that you giving him oral is a good prelude to something else. Learn from talking with him and observing his reactions where he gets the most stimulation. It might not always be the same place.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • ska1331
        Senior Member
        • Jul 2011
        • 125

        You can always do a search for books on the subject. There are several on the market. There is one called "Tickle His Pickel" that's not too clinical in its approach. Then there is the just keep experimrnting approach. I'm not sure that any man would object to his love wanting to practice on him.

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