[WannaBee]

First things first: Be there (in the bedroom)! Often! Enjoy yourself at all times!

There is absolutely nothing better than a girl/woman Wanting to make love to their boy/man.

Normally there is no Right time. Every time is right! as long we are not clearly occupied with other stuff. As baja said: We are guys, our groundstate is horny.

Did you ever happen to have the following conversation
She: What shall I wear tonight?
He: Nothing, I prefer you naked.
She: No really, do you think I should wear A or B?
He: If you have to put clother on, wear the stuff you can take off faster.

As I said, certain things in life tend to be predictable

When it comes to personal preferences we are all Different, just like you girls. I personally enjoy lot's of good stuff

[cocooned57]

I would concur with WannaBee, that enthusiasm and imagination and just being wanted sexually is a man's joy. He likes to know his lady is pleased by his actions in the bedroom, that what he does is working to make her enjoy. That does not mean you leave yourself out of the equation though. Do the dress up for YOU and then tease a bit with it. Make it a fantasy for you both, and tell him EXACTLY what kinds of touch makes it happen for you. He also needs to take some responsibility and add his own spice to the mix of it. If you feel a little shy or inhibited, make a game of that too, maybe pretend it is your first time with him, you want to know his passion and yours and want to learn about life. Play it out in your head if you need to beforehand and imagine it, just like you might plan for anything else. Anyway, these things have worked for me, and we always enjoyed a good sex life... Cc57