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  • rnl1990
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2011
    • 9

    I need advice - my boyfriend's penis is very thick and it worries me

    I've started dating this guy and recently we fooled around some. His penis is extremely large. I couldn't even fit y hand around it, I'd honestly say it's about as thick as a soda can. And I am NOT trolling or joking. It's that big.

    I'm worried about something though...

    I'm worried that.. say we stay in a relationship a while and we have sex for several months or years... but then we break up. I'm worried that I'll be a lot looser than I am now, even with kegel exercises.

    I don't know.. I'd just like some advice and reassurance from other women who have slept with guys who have very thick girth there. If you've slept with a guy long term who had that issue... ha, can you tell me what your sex life was like after that with other men? Or any stories really. I'm just nervous..
  • DSemcho
    Senior Member
    • Sep 2011
    • 177

    Don't worry about you becoming lose, when you have a guy give you an orgasm (via gspot and fingering) it can make you really tight. I've had that happen. Also, if you go a couple of weeks without having sex it can also make you tight. I've noticed when I masturbate, only clitoral, and I have an orgasm I get tighter also. And kegel does help! I've done it with guys that are way bigger than my husband, so I'm sure about this.

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    • cathy23
      Member
      • Oct 2011
      • 69

      I experienced this same thing with my last boyfriend. We used K-Y and lots of foreplay before I was, "stretched" enough to accommodate all of him. I'm seeing another guy now and I'm about like I was before. -PM me if you'd like to chat

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