Hi,Iv had this fantasy for ages,where my wife locks me in the garden shed and she gets a good service from the maintance man in the house.I would listen to her fun and groans on a monitor and get all hot and horney and give her second sex later.Iv asked her if she is game and she says yes although i could be locked away for ages.Should i go for it.Thanks
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If you think you can handle your wife sleeping with another guy, and you think your marriage is strong enough for it then yes, go ahead. I'm still trying to convince mine to do a light BDSM session with me. -
Make sure you talk over all the details and feelings before hand. Think of all the possibilities. What if this other guy has a bigger package, are you going to start feeling insecure. What if you want to try next, will she be OK with it. Is this a one time deal, or does this open the door for an open relationship. Think up all the possibilities, talk it throught and then go for it. Most times these things lead to relationhip problems is usually when the partners don't communicate about it before hand.Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)Comment
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Make sure you have a charged cell phone to summons help if needed. Maybe a lock that will unlock after a set amount of time could be made. There are pitfall for your relationship you should address before turning a fantasy into a reality.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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