[suzzie876]

Hi all, I'm new here

I really want to give my boyfriend an AMAZING head. I've never gave one, he's never had one. I hate gagging and stuff so I don't want to 'deepthroat'. But I want it to pleasure him? .. I need tips on how to make it feel as good as possible for him! Please help (:

[LanaBear]

I'd suggest you do a search. There are a ton of threads with tips and suggestions. A few are below.

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/7775-best-bj-ever.html

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/35400-new-giving-blowjobs.html

Since you are both new at it. Make sure to communicate, make sure to tell him that he needs to tell you what is feeling good and what is not. You don't have to deep throat to give a good blowjob.

[mrdee]

LB is right here! You dont need to deepthroat for it to be a good blowjob at all! I think this is sometimes looked upon as some sort of mark for what a good blowjob is which it shouldnt be at all, and I think it kind of comes from porn as well. Needless to say, you can give great head without deepthroating. A couple things that we have got out of some books about giving head, well my girl anyways.....Make sure there is lots of moisture, use hands and your mouth, lots of tonuge feels incredible and focusing around the head too. I love it when she uses two hands twisting around my shafe and has her mouth over my head swirlign her tongue around the head, using one hand and her mouth at the same pace as shes giving me head and using the free hand to pull on my balls and press them up towards her mouth feels great. Also, not all guys, but some like the anus played with. I was sworn against it until we tried it and after the one time of trying that, it feels great when she uses a finger there, but remember lots of lube and take your time! Good luck! And all in all, be very into it! Eye contact, moaning, and all that part is good too!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Personally, lube whilst giving a BJ? I wouldn't ....

Someone said this to me, and I think thats all you need to know.

"OWN IT" ...

[mrdee]

Correction, not lube in that sense.... Just meant saliva or moisture that way. And yes that 'Own it' sums it up short and sweet!