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  • MrsA
    Junior Member
    • Dec 2011
    • 5

    Need help with the balls!

    This might be dumb but my husband asked me to rub his balls and such, but the thing is that the position we were in, it was so awkward! I couldn't really reach. It was just weird. And I haven't done anything like that before besides oral, so please don't judge, but what are good positions to incorporate some ball action haha. Please and thank you!
  • Nholland
    Member
    • Dec 2011
    • 73

    The easiest access I think would be reverse cowgirl, so u can just reach forward, also when I'm shy about trying something new I find it's easier if hes not watching me lol so that positions good. Also the regular girl on top is still pretty easy, u just reach back. Just make sure ur nails are trimmed

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    • LanaBear
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2009
      • 8373

      No one is going to judge, lol, we've all been there at some point. Obviously the easiest would be during oral. Like the above poster mentioned, girl on top is probably the next easiest. You can reach back pretty easily and have fun with them.

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      • lizzardb63
        Veteran Member
        • Aug 2010
        • 1493

        You could also try doggie style and reaching underneath between your legs and massaging them. I have never tried this (and am now curious, lol)...so I am not sure if you could reach. If you try it, let me know! lol

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        • Darling
          Veteran Member
          • Jul 2010
          • 360

          I'm nervous about balls too, my husband loves it when I hold them, but I don't know what to do with them??

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          • Beththebutterfly
            Member
            • Sep 2011
            • 18

            My husband also likes his balls touched.I have reached between my legs while doing doggie and held them.It is a bit of a stretch for me though.I find it easier if I am sitting on top.He likes me to mix it up when he gets a bj too .I go back and forth from his penis to his balls.This also gives my mouth a needed break.I hope this helps.

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            • LanaBear
              Veteran Member
              • Jul 2009
              • 8373

              Just gently play with them. Stroke them, ask him how it feels because men are all different, so he may want a firmer or a more gentle touch...

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              • MrsA
                Junior Member
                • Dec 2011
                • 5

                Sounds good! Thanks everyone. Something to think about

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                • kiwi guy
                  Member
                  • Jan 2012
                  • 39

                  RE : Balls / testes - I have 2 penis rings - one which has an inside diamater of 34 millimetres. I am only 'just' able to get one of my testes thru it before (without forcing) getting the other one thru as well so it ends up around my scrotum (between my testes & penis) . Are my testes (as I prefer to call them) an 'average' size to other guys or have some of you got larger ones than me. Not that size matters! Yes, I really enjoy the sensations when my wife strokes mine as well ! Helps the erections last longer too ! Sometimes when I'm arousing myself (not masturbating) I have 'dribbling' from my penis - it's not semen so what is it - pre-cum fluid(?) or is it something similar to a woman squirting ?
                  Last edited by kiwi guy; 02-12-2012, 08:25 PM.

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                  • WannaBee
                    Member
                    • Aug 2010
                    • 51

                    Like most times,

                    communication is key.

                    Differnet guys like different things.
                    I even like different things at different times.

                    Might be a good idea to find out, what turns him on/off.

                    You might want to incorporate (the somewhat clichee)
                    "Do you like it, if I do X?" (while doing X)

                    Enjoy

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