So me and my boyfriend had sex 3 times last night. First time he fingered me. A couple hours later we had intercourse, and then 3 hours later intercouse again. It was rough(first time we've had rough sex) and it feels like it's sore/buring a little. It's uncomfortable and I'm wondering if it's normal and what I can do to help ease the pain?
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Because of the roughness, you may have some small cuts or tears. They will take some time to heal. Next time, make sure he uses enough lubrication for both.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Ease back on the sex for a few days... Pretty normal. Like JNS said, make sure next time you are sufficiently lubricated when having sex, this should minimize it but 3 times in one night is bound to make anybody a bit sore, lol.Comment
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I agree with the above it sounds like with the roughness and multiple times in a short period you were not wet enough and have some friction irritation.Comment
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