Hope this helps!
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There are several factors that could contribute to him not having an orgasm. The first is age, if he's a little older he might actually have problems with ejaculation. Also, is he self conscious about his body? Sometimes men get nervous and instead of being caught up in the moment they are somewhere else mentally. How often does he masturbate? If he masturbates a lot then his load might already be shot by the time you guys start having sex. Does he come to porn? If he comes to porn then maybe he is looking to do something kinkier. Have you ever just walked over to him, pulled his pants down and started giving a blow job with no warning? This creates a WOW factor that men love. The final thing is; is he still sexually attracted to you? If you don't know then ask him. Look at his face when he answers you so you can see if he's being honest. Men are known for having ADD and get distracted easily. Bring his focus back to you.
Hope this helps!Love is a two way street. Don't cross it until you've looked both ways.
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